Template variables
| SCRIPT_NAME |
string(10) "/index.php"
|
| addons |
array(84) {
["hidpi"]=>
array(5) {
["default_upload_high_res_image"]=>
string(1) "N"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(1) "1"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["step_by_step_checkout"]=>
array(6) {
["step_by_step_checkout_info"]=>
string(22) "setup_layout_steps.tpl"
["settings_proxy"]=>
string(0) ""
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(1) "1"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["as_side_cart"]=>
array(7) {
["add_to_cart_notification"]=>
string(1) "N"
["show_delivery_date"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["show_apply_coupon_code"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(2) "10"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["help_center"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "100"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["wk_queue_handler"]=>
array(12) {
["queue_handler_type"]=>
string(2) "db"
["count"]=>
string(2) "20"
["rabbitmq_host"]=>
string(0) ""
["rabbitmq_port"]=>
string(0) ""
["ssl_enabled"]=>
string(1) "N"
["rabbitmq_username"]=>
string(0) ""
["rabbitmq_password"]=>
string(0) ""
["rabbitmq_queue"]=>
string(0) ""
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "100"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["buy_together"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "100"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["paypal_commerce_platform"]=>
array(6) {
["collect_payouts"]=>
string(1) "N"
["rma_refunded_order_status"]=>
string(0) ""
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "100"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["stripe"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "100"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["stripe_connect"]=>
array(7) {
["collect_payouts"]=>
string(1) "N"
["rma_refunded_order_status"]=>
string(0) ""
["rma_refunded_order_status_tpl"]=>
string(29) "rma_refunded_order_status.tpl"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "100"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["paypal"]=>
array(10) {
["override_customer_info"]=>
string(1) "N"
["paypal_status_map_settings"]=>
string(16) "statuses_map.tpl"
["paypal_partial_refund_action_settings"]=>
string(25) "partial_refund_action.tpl"
["paypal_logo_uploader_settings"]=>
string(17) "logo_uploader.tpl"
["pp_statuses"]=>
string(242) "a:10:{s:8:"refunded";s:1:"I";s:9:"completed";s:1:"P";s:7:"pending";s:1:"O";s:17:"canceled_reversal";s:1:"I";s:7:"created";s:1:"O";s:6:"denied";s:1:"I";s:7:"expired";s:1:"F";s:8:"reversed";s:1:"I";s:9:"processed";s:1:"P";s:6:"voided";s:1:"P";}"
["partial_refund_action"]=>
string(6) "ignore"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "100"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["social_buttons"]=>
array(35) {
["vkontakte_enable"]=>
string(0) ""
["twitter_enable"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["yandex_enable"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["facebook_enable"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["pinterest_enable"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["pinterest_size"]=>
string(2) "20"
["vkontakte_appid"]=>
string(0) ""
["yandex_share_code"]=>
string(105) ""
["facebook_app_id"]=>
string(0) ""
["twitter_via"]=>
string(0) ""
["facebook_href"]=>
string(0) ""
["yandex_display_on"]=>
array(1) {
["products,pages"]=>
string(0) ""
}
["pinterest_shape"]=>
string(4) "rect"
["vkontakte_button_style"]=>
string(4) "mini"
["twitter_size"]=>
string(6) "medium"
["pinterest_display_on"]=>
array(1) {
["products"]=>
string(1) "Y"
}
["vkontakte_height"]=>
string(2) "22"
["facebook_send"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["twitter_display_count"]=>
string(10) "horizontal"
["vkontakte_width"]=>
string(3) "350"
["facebook_width"]=>
string(3) "450"
["twitter_display_on"]=>
array(1) {
["products"]=>
string(1) "Y"
}
["vkontakte_buttons_name"]=>
string(4) "like"
["facebook_layout"]=>
string(12) "button_count"
["vkontakte_display_on"]=>
array(0) {
}
["facebook_show_faces"]=>
string(1) "N"
["facebook_action"]=>
string(4) "like"
["facebook_lang"]=>
string(5) "en_US"
["facebook_action_font"]=>
string(5) "arial"
["facebook_colorscheme"]=>
string(5) "light"
["facebook_display_on"]=>
array(1) {
["products"]=>
string(1) "Y"
}
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "100"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["tags"]=>
array(6) {
["tags_for_products"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["tags_for_pages"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "200"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["rss_feed"]=>
array(7) {
["managing_editor"]=>
string(0) ""
["display_rss_feed_in_category"]=>
string(1) "N"
["category_max_products_items"]=>
string(1) "5"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "490"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["email_marketing"]=>
array(16) {
["em_show_on_checkout"]=>
string(1) "N"
["em_mailchimp_api_key"]=>
string(0) ""
["em_madmimi_username"]=>
string(0) ""
["em_checkout_enabled"]=>
string(1) "N"
["em_mailchimp_list"]=>
string(0) ""
["em_madmimi_api_key"]=>
string(0) ""
["em_double_opt_in"]=>
string(1) "N"
["em_madmimi_list"]=>
string(0) ""
["em_welcome_letter"]=>
string(1) "N"
["em_service"]=>
string(5) "dummy"
["em_token"]=>
string(32) "23dee3d2f8be94be16985fbbdd955452"
["em_lastsync"]=>
string(10) "1692796709"
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "500"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["newsletters"]=>
array(12) {
["newsletters_per_pass"]=>
string(2) "10"
["coupon"]=>
string(0) ""
["mailer_send_method"]=>
string(7) "default"
["mailer_smtp_host"]=>
string(0) ""
["mailer_smtp_username"]=>
string(0) ""
["mailer_smtp_password"]=>
string(0) ""
["mailer_smtp_ecrypted_connection"]=>
string(4) "none"
["mailer_smtp_auth"]=>
string(1) "N"
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "500"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["attachments"]=>
array(5) {
["allow_save_attachments_to_server"]=>
string(1) "N"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "600"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["vendor_rating"]=>
array(11) {
["formula"]=>
string(76) "paidOrdersCount + paidOrdersTotal + activeProductsCount + manualVendorRating"
["start_rating_period"]=>
string(1) "0"
["rating_above_price"]=>
string(1) "N"
["bronze_rating_lower_limit"]=>
string(2) "50"
["silver_rating_lower_limit"]=>
string(2) "80"
["gold_rating_lower_limit"]=>
string(2) "90"
["config_tpl"]=>
string(10) "config.tpl"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "900"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["customers_also_bought"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(3) "900"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["advanced_import"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1000"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["geo_maps"]=>
array(13) {
["provider"]=>
string(6) "google"
["yandex_api_key"]=>
string(0) ""
["google_api_notice"]=>
string(0) ""
["show_shippings_on_product"]=>
string(1) "N"
["yandex_suggest_api_key"]=>
string(0) ""
["yandex_commercial"]=>
string(0) ""
["google_api_key"]=>
string(0) ""
["yandex_map"]=>
string(7) "map.tpl"
["google_map"]=>
string(7) "map.tpl"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1000"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["mve_plus"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1000"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "1"
}
["vendor_communication"]=>
array(9) {
["vendor_to_customer_communication"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["show_on_product"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["vendor_to_admin_communication"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["show_on_vendor"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["show_on_order"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1000"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["vendor_plans"]=>
array(8) {
["include_shipping"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["include_taxes_in_commission"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["collect_taxes_from_vendors"]=>
string(1) "N"
["allow_vendors_to_change_plan"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1000"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["vendor_terms"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1000"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["gift_certificates"]=>
array(10) {
["min_amount"]=>
string(2) "50"
["max_amount"]=>
string(4) "1500"
["code_prefix"]=>
string(2) "GC"
["cert_per_page"]=>
string(2) "10"
["free_products_allow"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["redeem_shipping_cost"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1100"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["store_locator"]=>
array(6) {
["print_map"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["show_locations_at_geolocator"]=>
string(1) "N"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1200"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["product_variations"]=>
array(9) {
["variations_allow_own_images"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["variations_allow_own_features"]=>
string(1) "N"
["variations_allow_auto_change_default_variation"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["variations_show_all_possible_feature_variants"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["quantity_discount_on_different_variations"]=>
string(1) "N"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1500"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["recaptcha"]=>
array(18) {
["notice"]=>
string(0) ""
["forbidden_countries_notice"]=>
string(0) ""
["forbidden_countries"]=>
array(3) {
["CN"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["CG"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["IR"]=>
string(1) "Y"
}
["recaptcha_site_key"]=>
string(40) "6LdR2EwrAAAAAAX3-aec-9O9kozdN_33Qy5Mh9rC"
["recaptcha_secret"]=>
string(40) "6LdR2EwrAAAAAChO9I1mGlyfQccho_ctNAJdkCw4"
["recaptcha_theme"]=>
string(5) "light"
["recaptcha_size"]=>
string(6) "normal"
["recaptcha_type"]=>
string(5) "image"
["recaptcha_v3_site_key"]=>
string(0) ""
["recaptcha_v3_secret"]=>
string(0) ""
["recaptcha_v3_success_score"]=>
string(3) "0.5"
["recaptcha_use_for_value"]=>
string(382) "a:10:{s:5:"login";s:12:"recaptcha_v2";s:8:"register";s:12:"recaptcha_v2";s:7:"recover";s:12:"recaptcha_v2";s:8:"checkout";s:12:"recaptcha_v2";s:12:"track_orders";s:0:"";s:22:"track_product_in_stock";s:0:"";s:24:"apply_for_vendor_account";s:12:"recaptcha_v2";s:17:"gift_certificates";s:12:"recaptcha_v2";s:12:"form_builder";s:12:"recaptcha_v2";s:10:"discussion";s:12:"recaptcha_v2";}"
["recaptcha_use_for"]=>
string(20) "use_for_settings.tpl"
["settings_proxy"]=>
string(0) ""
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1500"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["storefront_rest_api"]=>
array(5) {
["access_key"]=>
string(32) "37f65599c9d17a4c4193ebd51186893a"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1500"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "1"
}
["wk_delivery_time"]=>
array(6) {
["setting_general"]=>
string(36) "wk_delivery_time_general_setting.tpl"
["request_wk_delivery_time"]=>
string(173) "{"shipping_first":"13","shipping_sec":"6","weekends":["0","6"],"modified_time":1724331358,"first_shipping_title":"We are The Helpful","secnd_shipping_title":"Free Delivery"}"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1500"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["product_bundles"]=>
array(5) {
["show_bundles"]=>
string(26) "before_product_description"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1520"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["rma"]=>
array(8) {
["returnable"]=>
string(1) "N"
["return_period"]=>
string(2) "10"
["display_product_return_period"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["dont_take_weekends_into_account"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1600"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["bestsellers"]=>
array(8) {
["final_sale_from"]=>
string(2) "40"
["period"]=>
string(3) "all"
["sales_amount_from"]=>
string(1) "1"
["last_days"]=>
string(1) "3"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1700"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["blog"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1700"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["seo"]=>
array(11) {
["seo_product_type"]=>
string(23) "product_category_nohtml"
["seo_category_type"]=>
string(15) "category_nohtml"
["seo_page_type"]=>
string(11) "page_nohtml"
["seo_other_type"]=>
string(9) "directory"
["seo_language"]=>
string(1) "N"
["single_url"]=>
string(1) "N"
["non_latin_symbols"]=>
string(1) "N"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1800"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["reward_points"]=>
array(14) {
["point_rate"]=>
string(1) "1"
["auto_price_in_points"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["price_in_points_with_discounts"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["points_with_discounts"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["price_in_points_order_discount"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["reward_points_order_discount"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["higher_level_extract"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["several_points_action"]=>
string(16) "minimal_absolute"
["consider_zero_values"]=>
string(1) "N"
["log_per_page"]=>
string(2) "10"
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1900"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["vendor_data_premoderation"]=>
array(11) {
["vendors_prior_approval"]=>
string(4) "none"
["products_prior_approval"]=>
string(3) "all"
["vendor_profile_updates_approval"]=>
string(3) "all"
["products_updates_approval"]=>
string(3) "all"
["approval_info"]=>
string(0) ""
["product_premoderation_fields"]=>
array(2) {
["product_prices:*"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["products:list_price"]=>
string(1) "Y"
}
["preventing_registration_info"]=>
string(0) ""
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "1900"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["facebook_pixel"]=>
array(8) {
["pixel_id"]=>
string(15) "516099561148918"
["track_all_page_views"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["track_add_to_cart"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["track_order_placed"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "2000"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["google_analytics"]=>
array(6) {
["tracking_code"]=>
string(12) "G-47N6MDZG2E"
["track_ecommerce"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "2000"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["vendor_categories_fee"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "2000"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["call_requests"]=>
array(11) {
["info"]=>
string(0) ""
["phone"]=>
string(0) ""
["phone_prefix_length"]=>
string(1) "7"
["phone_mask"]=>
string(0) ""
["buy_now_with_one_click"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["enable_call_requests_for_vendors"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["order_status"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "2300"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["form_builder"]=>
array(4) {
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "2400"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["barcode"]=>
array(12) {
["elm_image_info"]=>
string(0) ""
["type"]=>
string(5) "C128B"
["output"]=>
string(3) "png"
["text"]=>
string(1) "Y"
["height"]=>
string(2) "60"
["width"]=>
string(3) "250"
["prefix"]=>
string(8) "FF45CR99"
["elm_spec_descr"]=>
string(0) ""
["status"]=>
string(1) "A"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "2500"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["polls"]=>
array(6) {
["polls_votes_on_page"]=>
string(2) "20"
["polls_comments_on_page"]=>
string(2) "20"
["status"]=>
string(1) "D"
["is_disabled"]=>
bool(false)
["priority"]=>
string(4) "2600"
["unmanaged"]=>
string(1) "0"
}
["access_restrictions"]=>
array(13) {
["admin_reverse_ip_access"]=>
string(0) ""
["unsuccessful_attempts_login"]=>
string(0) ""
["number_unsuccessful_attempts"]=>
string(1) "5"
["login_intervals"]=>
string(2) "60"
["time_block"]=>
string(2) "24"
["unsuccessful_attempts_login_customer"]=>
string(0) ""
["number_unsuccessful_attempts_customer"]=>
string(1) "5"
["login_intervals_customer"]=>
string(2) "60"
["time_block_customer"]=>
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The Art of Showing Up.
Revealing your experiences and what helped: More real, less fake.
When the Event Isn’t the Event: Showing Up in the Moments that Follow
31/08/2025
by Kate Hamilton
We’re good at showing up for the event. The wedding, the baby shower, the funeral, the “ringing the bell” moment after cancer treatment, the divorce party. Balloons, flowers, the neat card with space too small to say what we really mean.
But here’s the truth: the event is rarely the thing.
The real stuff happens after. In the silence that follows. In the slow days, the hormonal weeks, the limbo months when everyone else has moved on but you’re still right in it.
- Grief doesn’t end when the funeral flowers wilt. It stretches and reshapes itself for months, years, in ways that are often invisible.
- Cancer treatment might finish on any given Tuesday, but the exhaustion, fear and “who even am I now?” moments keep rolling long after the hospital visits stop.
- New mums often say the hardest point isn’t day one, it’s week eight - when the adrenaline wears off, the hormones crash, and the house feels both too full and too empty all at once.
- Divorce doesn’t finish when the papers are signed. The loneliness of a quiet Sunday morning? That’s when it stings.
- Menopause isn’t a single stage - it’s years of hot flushes, foggy mornings, body shifts and identity wobbles.
- Even “good” changes like moving house or starting a new job can leave you lying awake at 2am thinking, did I just blow up my whole life?
These are the non-events. The aftershocks. The long tail. The bits nobody really prepares us for.
And yet - this is where the inner circle comes in. Where friendship and family are at their most powerful. We get the privilege of witnessing the in-between, of noticing when she’s slipping under, of showing up when the doorbell has long stopped ringing.
Gifts that matter after cancer treatment
The hospital visits may stop, but the fatigue, fear, and identity shifts often linger. A simple, thoughtful gift says: I’m still with you, when the world thinks it’s done. Explore Illness + Recovery gifts →
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Baby showers are full of cute onesies and balloons. But week eight, when hormones crash and the night feeds feel lonelier? That’s when a self-care gift or nourishing meal bundle lands like gold.
Find Motherhood support gifts →
Gifts for the quiet side of grief
Funerals end but grief doesn’t. Months later - on birthdays, anniversaries, or just a grey Monday - sending something simple, gentle and seeing is how we carry each other.
Shop Grief + Loss gifts →
Supporting a friend through divorce
The papers might be signed, but the Sunday mornings are still raw. A small, well-timed gesture - something comforting, grounding, or indulgent - can remind her she’s not doing it alone.
Discover Connection gifts →
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Hot flushes, foggy mornings, body shifts and identity wobbles don’t fit neatly in a gift bag. But carefully chosen rituals, skincare, or comfort pieces can make her feel held, not invisible.
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Overwhelm and burnout: why timing is everything
Burnout doesn’t arrive with balloons. It creeps in. A gift that recognises her exhaustion - rest, nourishment, ease - can feel like the most powerful “I see you” of all.
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New beginnings deserve more than champagne
Moving house, starting a job, or closing one chapter for another… “Congratulations” feels too small. Gifts that ground, soothe, or spark joy in the quiet afterglow make all the difference.
Explore She Needs gifts →
Showing up for the after
If we only show up for the event, we miss the whole point of being in someone’s inner circle. The event is the photo. The aftermath is the relationship.
That’s why we’ve built She Needs - gifts that aren’t about the milestone, but about the messy middle that follows. Gifts that say “I know this is harder now” or “I remember” or simply “I’m still here.”
Because the moment after the moment? That’s when it matters most.
Browse She Needs gifts — thoughtful ways to show up in the after →
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