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Skip the flowers. Send food she doesn’t have to cook, a service that takes something off her plate, or a small luxury that makes her feel like herself again.</p>
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Be practical. Think meals, help with the kids, or confidence + comfort gifts like cosy loungewear or skincare. Most of all - just show up and check in. Be patient and supportive- she's experiences changes all over the place right now.</p>
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Postpartum brain fog, overwhelm, or “very peri” moments can make life feel impossible. Here’s what actually helps a friend (or you) through - from food to time, the gifts that really matter. |
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